What does it mean emotional maturity? And what does it have to do with sex?
Emotional maturity is the foundation of most things we do in life & how we relate to our emotions, which affects our entire life through daily choices we make & actions.
The more in depth I’m going into stripping off my own conditioning & bullshit & trusting my inner knowing & my feels.... the more I am able to detect if a man really is in touch with his devine masculine essence & his energy body.
Read MoreI have a client who has difficulties connecting with women. He is in his late 50’s and has never been married & his last long term relationship was in 1990’s. The relationship ended because the woman left him. He was devastated, heart broken & never really healed. Instead he became cynical, started seeing sex workers & has been doing so for almost 10 years. Sure enough it never was fulfilling. He came to me for help to see if there is a chance.
Read MoreI asked this question of the men in my FB group - what is PLEASURE for them?! And what activities they engage into to bring more pleasure into their lives?
A lot of them went right away into the scenarios of sexual pleasure with their partners. And that's totally cool! It is the first place a man’s brain goes to when it comes to Pleasure. And it’s really amazing that it is so. It is a man’s nature.
Read MoreI had a lover once who had deep shame around his sexuality. At the time when we met I have spent several years on my healing, was aware of my wounding, depth didn’t scare me, & it was normal for me to be open & vulnerable in expressing my desires for intimacy. I knew how I liked to receive pleasure. I knew what turned me on & how to ask for what I wanted.
Read MoreThe more you offer her YOUR LOVE, the more she is healed! The more she is healed, the more she is able to give back to you in the amounts beyond you can imagine.
And thus the world is so much closer to harmony, joy, peace, ecstasy & play!
Here I wanted to quote Sofia Sundari, a Tantra teacher, whose wisdom I deeply respect & admire.
"A man’s confidence is strongly linked to his relationship with his cock.
We cannot authentically engage with the world & people around us unless we are in absolute acceptance & love of our own selves.
Read MoreI ventured to India solo to join a group of Russian speaking yogis 5 years ago in April.
That was the time when I had a break up with my ex, that spearheaded my healing journey & self discovery process & hence my unexpected trip to India....
I have never really shared my story. So here it is. I felt compelled to share more of who I am & how I got to my coaching career & mostly to coaching men.
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