“The main reason I decided to work with Iryna, was because I was having a hard time with PE and I was very unsatisfied with my life. Since working with Iryna, I have a much more positive outlook on life. I quit drinking, I have a new job, I’m in a good relationship.

I joined her Gentlemen’s Club and the group sessions have been very supportive and insightful. I have learned many things about sexuality and relationships in the group. I have also been inspired by other’s stories in the group.

I think for me it was more about developing self discipline and putting in the work for myself. The program is very good, and once you put in the work you see the results.

I would recommend Iryna’s work to others. Iryna is very kind, but also direct. Iryna is very knowledgeable about sexuality and relationships, and if you’re willing to put in the work you will see great results in your relationships and with your sexual confidence. Her coaching will also have an impact on all aspects of your life.”

⁃ Anonymous

“I’ve learned a lot about spiritual sense about life and relationships through working with Iryna. The courses that I initially purchased opened my senses to healthy sexuality and the realization that as I age, not everything is automatically conditioned, but that I must practice what is being taught. As I’ve worked with Iryna, I’ve always felt supported, challenged, and also able to discuss my deepest feelings, emotions, and victories within my work with Iryna. Iryna has an open heart to living life in the present moment. She has taught me that sex isn’t always explosive and it’s ok when it isn’t. The teaching about my heart connection with my partner is primary to experience deep fulfillment in our sexual intimacy.

Every session brought its own enlightenment to my mind and inner life, then as we worked together as a husband and wife in the appointment we both benefited hearing counsel that impacted change in us as a couple.

If you’re hopeless and lost in your sexual union with your spouse there is a Miracle awaiting you with Iryna ❤️”

⁃ CTL

“I was looking for a coach to help me deal with long term PE.  It took a little convincing of myself to reach out to not just Iryna but to anyone.  I did speak to two other coaches and after speaking to each of them Iryna felt comfortable to talk to.  I felt judgement from the others, and one of them even made a comment "why don't you just do it again" which showed a lack of understanding long term PE.

Since working with Iryna, my view on my situation has completely shifted as well as the frustration that comes from it. I had a realization of my resentment towards myself for my PE but also towards my wife.

I’ve learned a mixed bag of tools that have been very supportive in my journey.  I’ve felt so safe in our conversations and work together. I appreciate so much that Iryna isn’t clinical or judgmental. She puts herself out there and shows her human side. I would recommend her coaching.  I think it has helped spur a lot of looking inward and what I can do better and where I'm at emotionally and relationship wise. To anyone looking to work with Iryna, Hold on tight! It may l be a little bit of a rollercoaster of a ride but well worth the ups and downs. You will learn a lot about yourself and your relationship.”

⁃ JC

“I feel like a new person since working with Iryna! All of the exercises, techniques from our one on ones, especially the hot and cold trainings have helped me so much. I’ve also had huge insights into my relationship with my mother. I did VIP In Person sessions with Iryna as well and those were the most helpful! I felt perfectly safe and seen.

I feel the best part of our work was that Iryna genuinely cared about my growth. I most definitely would recommend Iryna’s coaching. Iryna is the real deal and cares deeply about her work in helping men expand.”

⁃ Anonymous

“Iryna’s warmth and inviting energy to explore this field of work drew me to working with her. I now feel safe in my body, which has been key for me in my journey. One of my favorite practices that I learned was the sex magic breathwork practice that I use to this day. Iryna’s care and willingness for me to achieve my intention helped me so much. She helped me really understand my body and my relationship to my body and sex.

I would recommend her work because I believe in her approach to this work. Iryna is really enjoyable to work with. I looked forward to all of her sessions and she held great containment for me in my lows at the time.

If you’re thinking about working with Iryna, you’ll love it! You’ll be guided beautifully, you’ll have a side coach to give you insights a long the way in your own personal sex life (this is huge), you’ll be held to good accountability and great work will be achieved.”

⁃ Anonymous

“When I found Iryna, I looked through her website and I saw a high amount of candidness surrounding issues that were near and dear to my life. I felt like she were invested in helping men work through some of there most challenging and often shameful issues for men.

Since working with Iryna, my general confidence about myself. I feel much more connected to all the parts of me and am able to feel and accept them. My shame I had surrounding sex has decreased to negligible levels and I've had a number of very positive restorative experiences. There was never time I felt unsafe or unsupported in any of our sessions.

I really loved Iryna’s directness. She never let me get away with trying to bullshit her or let me get off the hook. I REALLY appreciated this! Sometimes I tend to downplay things but I like it when people hold me accountable. I highly recommend her coaching!”

- Matthew F.

“Hi Iryna, Hope all is well.

I have been thinking of sending you an email to say thank you. The course was brilliant. I ended up watching it twice before trying it with my gf. It was very detailed telling me step by step what I need to be doing.

Before I purchased the course I had started dating someone, there was great connection, chemistry and the sex was very good as well. I was not sure If I should approach her about the massage but she loved the idea of it. This was her message below 24 hours later and it has changed the dynamics of our relationship in so many different ways. The big thing is the trust between us both helped the relationship and also become more open that has helped in all parts of our relationship.”

Her Message: OMG still shaking from the massage. Can’t stop thinking about it.”

-Anonymous, PUSSY MASSAGE COURSE

“Iryna, I really can't encapsulate the effect you had one me as the shifts in my life have been so very deep. This testimonial wont due justice to you and the experience I had and support you have offered me. But it can at the very least show some highlights.

When I first met Iryna I was at the end of my twenties and the majority of my experiences had been with sex workers and a one time hookup and no real relationship experience. I came to her after reading her article about semen retention along with reading her testimonials and signed up for her introduction package where I had the intention of trying to master my sexual energy and being able to last longer in bed. Before working with her I would always cum instantly, never being able to enjoy the woman I ever was with. And that's all changed as I can come on demand if I even choose to.

I found results with her and signed up for the full package. In the span of working with her over the full 18 sessions, I went from a dude who did not know how to get a date, didn't know how to really talk to women, to being a man that blows women's minds. I was able to last long and have passionate sex, most of the time choosing not to cum.. and hooking up with girls on the first date with them being very receptive and open to it, to dating girls with serious intentions and learning so much about myself and about these sublte dynamics. Everything I didn't do in my young 20s and early teens, I got to experience in these six+ months and it's truly changed my life and elevated me. It was like experiencing 10 years worth of experiences in 6 months. There was also a lot of deep work I did with her. I am on a level where I can embody the man I want to be and that I am naturally. There is no faking it. I can say this is me, and it works. A lot of healing took place deep within me with my work with her. If I did not work with her I imagine I would still be stunted and wouldn't have made a fraction of the progress.

I can't even put a value on the deep work I did, it is unquantifiable and so very much worth it. Something I can quantify financially is the "cost of sex" the " cost of working with her". While I won't get into the numbers on the cost of having sex with women for hours and hours ...I will say it would have been way more expensive than paying for her services. So in this sense it was a massive win, on top the deeper insights such as lasting in bed, understanding myself on a deeper level, being able to understand women and understand how to go about interactions, and how to authentically have sex in a way that is genuine, that a woman would be receptive to.”

- Anonymous

"Working with Iryna was pivotal in my life and sexual journey. I feel like if I didn't work with Iryna, I may have veered off to a path filled with resentment. I'm grateful for the timing when we met, the vulnerable conversations we had, and of course, the guidance she has given me.

The good news is, intimacy has gone up significantly. I've been having sex regularly and feel like I've become more gentle due to the issues I've shared with Iryna, but at the same time more passionate - it's quite the interesting change. I feel more aware of responding to a woman's needs in bed instead of constantly being in the head. The result of this has made a more confident me, and seemingly, a happy her."

- Kris, New Jersey

"As a man, it is very uncomfortable to be vulnerable about insecurity regarding your sexuality or lack thereof. It takes courage and most of all, a safe place in which you can share your most shameful of struggles and experiences. Iryna was that safe place throughout my process, always showing love and acceptance regardless of the darkness that was displayed in my heart. I am so grateful for the work I did with Iryna and for the space and the healing she enabled me to enjoy!"

- Harrison, Toronto

“Happy Thanksgiving, Iryna and thanks for another lovely newsletter. I can confirm every word you wrote from my own experience. And an extra thank you to you especially: it's pretty much nine months since I first starting working with you and following your guidance and what that lead me to—nine months, and this week in my journal I entered: "Celebrating the return of the ALL NATURAL, BIG, FULL ERECTION in my life!!" Lovely proud feeling of payoff from keeping the daily practices, the extra exercising, even things relating to diet and Nitric Oxyde replenishment—but I see it's really ALL of it, and persistence, and letting habits 'sink in' and become part of my daily way.”

- Mark, New York

“I reached out to Iryna, looking for a way to better understand my sexuality and remove the social programming I had around sex. During the program Iryna provided great insight into the sexual process, she provided a space for me to process the social programming I experienced growing up, and most importantly she provided a number of practices to help me integrate my sexuality with who I am, instead of simply repressing my sexuality. I changed a lot during the program and since the program has ended I have changed even more. The change I have experienced since starting the program is incredible. I have so much more confidence; I enjoy my sexuality so much. Rather than feeling guilty for feeling attracted to someone or simply repressing my attraction, I am able to enjoy the attraction and use the energy created to work towards my personal and professional goals. I am very grateful to Iryna for providing me the opportunity to learn more about myself and become the confident, fun loving person I am now. I highly recommend her program.”

- Joe, Minnesota

“I am so happy and amazed that you have come into my life, at the exact right time; when I was ready and also when I needed you so much! I think it has taken my entire life to be ready to work with you at this level, and some how some divine power has connected us. It was meant to be. You have such a rare skill set and level of warmth and intuition. You seem to be able to read me so clearly, and you are helping me become my whole self, which feels amazing. My whole, sexual, happy, emotional, feminine, masculine, in tune with the universe, self. How amazing I feel it is at a time of a world crisis you have entered my life and have helped me start the path to enlightenment. I feel our work together will serve a higher purpose some day, and perhaps it already has. The future will tell more. Thank you for being such a kind, gentle, warm, passionate soul, and making yourself available to me. I value every moment of our time together”

- Richard, Palo Alto

"Iryna is a great educator and a very caring coach! I was very impressed by her ability of capturing the root cause of my patterns & behaviors in relationships. She helped me upderstand the recurring issues and how I could break the vicious circle by being more aware of my inner strengths and desires. Iryna created a safe and caring environment for me so that I could be totally open and transparent during our discussions. She guided me through meditation & breath work that touched deeply mu inner senses. These were great experiences! Iryna was able to deliver very effective tools that I could use movving forward. It was a pleasure working with Iryna and I will always be grateful for showing me how to change and improve. Grazie Iryna!"

- Antonio, Boston

"My heart is so full! I am overwhelmed with gratitude! It's tough to put into words how thankful I am and how different my life is after working with Iryna.. When we first met, I was dealing with a messy and toxic separation/divorce from an 18 year relationship. I hadn't dated since I was a teenager and had no idea what I was doing.. my confidence was almost non-existent when it came to women and my life felt like it was completely up in the air. I felt sad, confused and desperate. Iryna knew exactly how to talk to me and handle what I was going through with confidence and compassion. Every week when we talked, she assigned me a task.. and every week I saw progress, little by little. Some weeks the progress was massive! To give you an idea.. I started by learning to not be nervous before dates, then how to talk to a woman, then learned to touch a woman for the very 1st time, to then kissing, to touching and kissing more intimately, to getting them to the bedroom, to sensual touching and breathing, to foreplay, to having sex, to becoming a humble, yet ultra- confident force in and out of the bedroom. I've slowly gotten comfortable in all Of these areas and know how to take it there successfully basically every time! My dating and sex life has been amazing and will never be the same! I have been sincerely complimented by every woman I've been with on my confidence and sexual abilities! I can still hardly believe it! This confidence and success has also transferred into my day to day life and business as well! I can't thank you enough, Iryna. There is no price you can put on the results I've experienced and the positive changes in my life. I appreciate you so much. Thank you, Thank you, thank you"

- Dominic, Denver

"Iryna is super insightful. She's able to make it right questions to guide you out of the woods and open your eyes. Her approach is precise & positive. She helps you find the root causes and work on them, which unleashes a chain effect that impacts you deeply. I am still amazed at how soon I could see the changes I was looking for. Other than that she is a sweet woman and a delight to work with. It's great to be able to talk to a woman to coach you on how to deal with another woman and how to be a man for her. Your woman will inherit the benefits of you being a better man for yourself and for the world."

- Rob, Florida

“Iryna has completely changed my life. I sought her out after struggling with sexual dysfunction issues that were ruining my relationship with my partner. I was losing sleep, felt depressed, scared, dejected, and unmanly. I tried everything to fix my problem from psychiatry, hypnotherapy, took libido enhancing medications, etc. and nothing was working. I began avoiding sex with my partner and started to resent the whole experience. Thankfully I met Iryna just in time and she helped me reprogram my whole outlook on sex, pleasure and intimacy. I am now enjoying the best sex I’ve ever had with my partner and am able to feel sensations I never thought were possible throughout my body during lovemaking. She also helped me examine my relationship with my partner and get to know the true meaning behind the masculine and femine that govern not just our sex lives, but every interaction we have together. She approaches everything with a sense of compassion, and understanding. Never once did I feel ashamed of sharing with her exactly what I was going through, what I was thinking, or how it was making me feel. As with all good teachers, she provides you with a foundation of learning that you can continue to build upon and make your own in the future. After working with Iryna I can honestly say I have never felt more connected to myself, and to my partner. I am ready for whatever the future brings.”

- Victor, New York

"There's a lot that Iryna knows and does that, frankly, is over my head. What I do understand is that it took a lot of courage (and desperation) for me to bare my soul to her. A lifetime of negative experiences had me expecting her to politely recoil in disgust. Instead, she looked at my soul, smiled, and called it 'beautiful'. I can't say that this experience has totally changed me - that will take time. But at least now I have a vague idea what life is like for people who feel lovable, and that has given me a target and sense of direction. I am deeply grateful to Iryna and only wish that I will grow enough to some day have something to offer her."

- Joggle, Chicago

“To my fellow men, brothers on the journey: 

If you've found Iryna Sulim, you've found a rare treasure, a mighty ally, and a guide to your own power. Don't waste this chance: If you go for her coaching, go fully.

If Iryna gives you a daily practice, do it daily. If she suggests reading something—read it now. If she sends you an article or a podcast, take it in. A practice to try? Do it, do it soon. Do it a few times. 

LET HER LEAD YOU through things. Don't just comply lazily. Throw yourself in, commit to give it a full-hearted try—and you will see the most extraordinary results and find yourself living and loving more powerfully and deeply than you could have imagined. You will thank her. Your lover will thank her. People around you will feel a different presence and potency about you. Your world will change.”

- Mark, New York

“After working with Iryna, I have experienced many life-changing benefits.  I came to Iryna struggling with porn addiction, self-loathing, sexual incompetence and sexual frustration.

Iryna led me through the wilderness to discover my true desires and ultimately to understand my true purpose in life.  I have much more love and respect for myself now.  During our time together, I also landed my dream job, one that I would be considered unqualified for by all normal standards, but the confidence and self-love that I found through the journey with Iryna, enabled me to reach out and grab what I wanted.  I have new vision and clarity regarding my worth and my power.  I was able to come face to face with the lies and the deceptions that have been directing my life for so long.  I have not looked at porn in over a month, and my marriage has gone to much deeper levels and my wife and I have experienced much more authenticity in our conversations and interactions with one another.  I can finally take a deep breath!

As a man, it is very uncomfortable to be vulnerable about insecurity regarding your sexuality or lack thereof.  It takes courage and most of all, a safe place in which you can share your most shameful of struggles and experiences.  Iryna was that safe place throughout my process, always showing love and acceptance regardless of the darkness that was displayed in my heart.  

I am so grateful for the work I did with Iryna and for the space and the healing she enabled me to enjoy!”

- Caleb, Texas 

“While I was struggling to feel sensations during sexual intercourse, I decided to go to see different specialists. I have seen 4 psychologists, one was awfully expensive and a bit helpful the other ones were kind of lost and seem not to know much about sex. Then after seeing posts on Facebook I ended up meeting with Iryna she has from far been the most helpful. She had a method, exercises and homework. It helped me increase my sensitivity, being more present during the sexual intercourse (I was always elsewhere projecting myself). In addition to Iryna, I had also started meditation and quit watching porn which was also very helpful. To sum up,Iryna has been from far the most helpful person I met to help me overcome all my sexual issues, I feel I still have much more to learn but it is such a relief to know that there is a path and a method to be better and enjoy more my sexual life. Thank you Iryna!”

- Lin, New Jersey

“Working with Iryna was great! I had some trouble with certain thoughts, dealing with my thoughts on the sexual past of my girl friend, which made my relationship difficult. These thoughts were not understood by the other few coaches I had worked with. Iryna was different, she made me feel so safe, so I shared easily about my sexuality. Without this complete openness I wouldn’t have this result so fast. She worked with me to a different state of mind. Right now I feel confident about my manhood and my body. And I am not worrying about the thoughts I had. I am very happy to be working with Iryna and will in the future.”

- Wilco, Netherlands

“For years my wife watched me try books, methods, tips and tricks on our sex and intimacy. And sure—it improved in some areas, not in others, but I always had a deep longing, and a sense that there's so much more to be discovered in and through sex.

And then I met Iryna Sulim. Game changer!

Iryna's wise and extraordinary guidance was almost immediately life transforming. It's great, beautiful work she's doing. We all need coaching from time to time, in business, fitness, parenting—but Iryna's mentoring goes to the heart of love and sex as core powers that run through all of life. She is a font of healing, understanding, encouragement, and tons of deep knowledge to help a man live and love to his fullest, and satisfy his woman to her core.

And what does my wife say about this work I've been into? "Iryna deserves a very great THANK YOU!"

- Mark, New York 

“As a colleague and client, I would say working with Iryna is a healing experience framed by tenderness, wisdom and profound compassion. As a woman, to be held and guided by someone who has so authentically embodied her sensuality and so owns the full spectrum of her womanhood is transformative in and of itself. Knowing her and working with her to heal my own wounds has revealed a whole new layer of what it can mean to be both powerful and vulnerable, both courageous and loving towards my deeper fears. She is a master in integration because she’s done the work herself. Seldom have I met someone that is so accomplished and determined to exemplify healing in her own life.

I would wholeheartedly recommend her transmission, approach and guidance to anyone that is ready to make a shift towards their highest expression and healing that is transformative and profoundly loving. She is a queen amongst queens with an undeniable gift and it’s an honor and privilege to know her and experience her coaching personally."

- Melanie Yolanta, New York  

“I always look forward to my calls with Iryna because her energy has a very unique quality of making everything lighter, making everything instantly better. The space that she holds is filled with sunshine, gentle nurturing and it feels like a soft alpaca safety blanket wrapped all around me. Her gentle invitation and masterful guidance to go deeper within me soothes my hyper-vigilance and really reminds me that going deep doesn’t need to be painful or scary. The tools and exercises that Iryna takes you through allow to access the blind spots in your psyche and then rewire the old narratives into new ones – those of empowerment, pleasure, enjoyment and fun. I’m so grateful for the beautiful and profound transformation I have experienced in all areas of my life in such a short period of time thanks to Iryna.”

- Julie Meuo, New York

"Iryna is one of the most caring and intuitive individuals I've had the pleasure to meet. Working with her has not only helped me confront the shame and guilt I've carried for years, but her experience and wise counsel has placed me on a clear path of healing and understanding. I can honestly say my life is much more fulfilling, energetic and joyful because of her. I am beyond grateful for the excellent work she does.”

- Max, New York

”Iryna was a sherpa in my journey towards becoming fully integrated with my sexuality and creativity. I have more energy and creativity now than I did when we started. She really cares and wants her clients to be successful. I hope that more creatives see her and expand their ability to go rock their shit out!”

- Rainer, New York