Dirty Talk is a Superpower - What is Yours?

There is nothing more joyful for me than hearing from the men I work with about how embracing their unique gifts and talents, fully expressing themselves with a woman, and being accepted for who they are, brings them joy and deep openness.

An open, receptive, and joyful woman works wonders for a man. I know you know this. How you show up with her, how you position yourself, will determine how she responds to you. (It’s not entirely your job to be responsible for her closure or openness—she plays a huge role in this too. However, the more you know yourself, the more you will be able to track her responses in the moment.)

One of my clients (a young Middle Eastern man in his 30s) is having his whole world turned upside down with women since he unleashed his Dominant Poetic side. He started expressing himself through “dirty talk and sexting,” telling women what he would do to them and how. This is a part of his creative genius. He enjoys it, and when he finally stopped shying away from it and started owning it, women absolutely loved it.

Women kept sharing how turned on they were before even arriving on a date.

We women love when our imaginations are played with. Why do you think 50 Shades of Grey was such a hit? (And it wasn’t even great writing.)

Now, I’m not saying you should suddenly start dirty talking or sexting your woman out of the blue. What I am saying is that if this is true for you—if it’s a part of your unique expression—then by all means, try it out and practice. I’m a big advocate for you, gentlemen, finding your own edge, your unique creative expression. It might look like you inspiring her with dance moves, a romantic song, deep philosophical conversations, or your quirky sense of humor. When you love that unique expression about yourself, she will love it too. If she doesn’t, she simply isn’t the woman for you.

Find that superpower within you and own it masterfully.

And, of course, it goes much deeper than that when it comes to sex, love, and relationships.

Knowing and owning your needs, desires, boundaries, emotions, and your truth are all deeper components that inspire women to love, trust, and desire you.

That’s what I support my clients with. If you’re desiring support, schedule a free consultation here - https://calendly.com/iryna-sulim/30min

Warmly,

Iryna