Don't Let Performance Anxiety Control You - Learn to Thrive in the Bedroom

Hey there,

Let’s talk about a challenge many men face. Is this you too?

You’re with your woman, she’s doing all the things that usually turn you on, but you simply can’t get your penis to work. You try to deflect by going back to “foreplay” and doubling down on pleasuring her, but you both know that you're just buying time and frantically trying to make an erection happen. These “performance issues” are no longer an exceptional occurrence, and you worry that she thinks that you’re no longer attracted to her.
 

Sex used to be fun and something you looked forward to, but now it’s this huge source of anxiety. It has become a chore on your “to-do” list (you might even prefer taking out the trash over taking your woman between the sheets), or this big exhausting topic between you and your partner. You want to feel closer to the woman in your life and you want to be the lover she desires, but most days, if you’re honest, it’s just simpler to avoid connection and masturbate to porn as a way to satisfy your sexual needs.

When your body isn’t working the way you want it to, it’s easy to think that your problem is performance. There is this idea that there’s something wrong with you if you don’t desire sex, or if you have trouble functioning like a machine. When your body isn’t working the way you want it to, it’s easy to think that your problem is performance. And so you start taking some viagra or other pills to increase your lasting power (or even just to get your penis going), or you scour books and magazines for any new techniques and skills that will help you feel less inadequate as a lover.

But nothing really seems to solve the problem or work long term.

That’s because your problem isn’t performance, it’s a lack of bodily awareness and the way you use your conscious attention. Truth be told, you don’t need more skill or better technique. Being a great lover or having satisfying sexual experiences is not about performance but about learning to be more attuned to your body, connected to your inner self, your masculine impulses, and reclaiming your unique masculine nature.

And that is what you are going to learn in this course.

There is an unspoken expectation that a man is supposed to just know how to confidently court and guide a woman in the bedroom, but no one actually teaches you how to do that.

You might have read some books, you might have taken some notes from porn, but you’re still confused about your masculine nature and how you are supposed to use that to confidently lead in a way that feels authentic to you - and pleasurable for your partner.

And that’s exactly what my 10-week course, Presence Over Performance is designed to help you with. To let go of shame, sexual hang-ups, and any harmful conditioning that is causing you to feel inadequate as a lover and a man, and reclaim your innate masculine power and irresistible male charisma that will drive your woman wild!

Here is the link to the 10-week course: https://www.irynasulim.com/presence-over-performance

Warmly

Iryna