Your Sexual Desire is a Choice

Hey there, 

I have so much fun watching people's faces when I tell them that I am a sex coach. The reactions are priceless, really. 

Some people turn around almost 360 degrees with their eyes wide open and exclaim, "Oh, you are!?! Wow, how did you get into this?" Some start making fun, imagining me coaching a couple and giving instructions about positions, angels, etc.:) Some want to know more, and some brush it off and want to move on to the next topic.

But there is always a little bit of trepidation or slight embarrassment I feel coming from people when they hear me talk more about what I do. Not many can go deep into a conversation about intimacy and sex. And it is not surprising to me at all. When you start talking to someone about intimacy and sexuality, you bond with this person almost forever. It is a very vulnerable topic. 

Since there has recently been an influx of new subscribers, I wanted to clarify with this email what I do and don't do in my practice. 

So what sex coaching actually is? 

In my practice, I use talking (almost like therapy, Gestalt therapy in my case) and embodiment practices (meditations, breathwork) to guide a person through. I work with a body, mind, and soul, so to speak. We talk a lot about sexual desires, needs, and challenges. We say the words penis, vagina, pussy, etc, out loud because through speaking, we normalize sharing about these parts of our body with no emotional (usually shame) charge.

We work with the body (emotions, feelings), mind, and spirit in connection, which means I ask my client to feel into different parts of himself/herself and share what it is like. 

I help my clients think of sex, eroticism, and intimacy as a very natural, innocent, and pure human experience because it is. 

The sessions are happening online through Zoom, with clothes on. I do not guide my clients through masturbation; there is no nudity or explicit touch. I create self-pleasure practices (recordings), and my clients do those in the privacy of their homes. 

This is very effective, and my clients get amazing results. I hope this is clear to you now what sex coaching is, but if you still have questions, feel free to send me an email to info@irynasulim.com and ask. I’d love to answer your questions.

If you wish to know more, schedule a free 30-minute discovery call HERE.  

If you are a courageous man who feels deep down within himself that there is more to intimacy than what you already have with your wife or lover, I invite you to come and work with me one-on-one. I have some spots open for six-month and one-year journeys. 

For those of you who are not ready to jump right into 1-on-1 coaching, my online course will be perfect for you as an introduction to my teachings. It is only $495.
"Presence over Performance"  

Much love and gratitude,

Iryna