The Biggest Misconception About Lasting Long in Bed
Hi There,
I wanted to share something with you that may not always come across as obvious.
So here it is.
We, women, don't want you to jackhammer us with a hard-on for hours and hours on end as they portray it in porn. It is not about having a hard-on on command, though it is possible with one very simple but not such easy condition to follow - your masculine heart needs to be on board as well.
Women who want that type of sex (i.e., jackhammering) are numb, and in order to feel something, they like it to be hard, fast, and performative.
That is not what my teachings are about. And that is not what any of you would want anyway.
The intimacy that you want and what most women desire is connected, slow, and present. And in order to experience it this way, both partners must FEEL all that is happening for them individually and between them. And the sensations and emotions that may arise in one single sexual experience are not always joyful and exciting. There could be moments of feeling shame, sadness, guilt, disappointment etc. And those feelings truly need to be felt, not created a story about. Because if you don't allow for 90 seconds of feeling through that anxiety, i.e., breathing through it (btw all emotions when truly felt last for 90 seconds), your body will tense up, and you will lose your erection. And if you continue going into your head perpetuating the story, the whole experience will be lost.
Hot passionate lovemaking can only be that when you, as a man, truly allow yourself to be in your heart.
And it can begin with a very simple focus - you appreciating her, yourself, and the whole experience. Seeing the beauty in it all, loving the moments, even the weird and awkward ones.
When you are in your heart, your cock will naturally cooperate. Give it a try, and let me know how you do.
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With Love and Gratitude,
Iryna