What My Clients Are Saying
Hey there,
I wanted to share with you this very touching testimonial of one of my client's who recently graduated from our work together.
"When I met Iryna I had just been broken up with by my girlfriend of 6 years. I was devastated by the breakup, because I knew it was due to my shortcomings (no pun intended) that I found myself here. My ex and I had just spent the last 18 months building our shared home on the land in a beautiful rural area. We had created a paradise and were building our dream life together. At least I had thought.
After the first year of running my business as a market gardener I was exhausted, and didn't have the awareness of all the other areas of my life that had been on the back burner. Heading into this past winter I was seeking rest and recovery in the form of instant gratification, and escapism. Our erotic life had become stale for quite some time, and I had a secret habit of masterbaiting to porn models online. Needless to say, that only worsened the existing problems and dug a deeper grave for our erotic life.
The dynamic between my ex and I was more like roommates. I can't remember the last time I was actually leading, creating exciting experiences, and being fully present with her. I smoked cannabis many times per day starting right in the morning, and had no discipline with my eating habits. My sex energy, my diet, and my mental state were all chaotic and dysregulated. I knew I was not living in alignment with my highest calling, and felt disgusted with myself, but didn't have the self control to make any change.
We both went on separate vacations throughout the winter, and after 10 weeks apart we finally reunited in February to celebrate Valentines day. That was the last night we had sex, and I suffered premature ejaculation terribly not unlike many times before. A few days later she had made a plan and decided to take our puppy and move out. I weeped for 2 weeks and sat alone in my sadness. I continued to play video games, smoke weed, and watch porn. Deeper I fell into despair thinking I was destined to be this way forever.
Until I found my strength again, and got on YouTube (like many times before) seeing if I could figure out how to fix the sexual problems I was dealing with. I found Iryna's YouTube channel and felt spoken to by her videos regarding some of the issues I was facing. There was something about her energy that I knew I could feel safe within, and so I reached out for a free discovery call.
After meeting with her I arrived at a crossroads. I could spend $2000 which was a challenging amount to commit to at this moment and take radical action to work on myself, or I could continue moping around in despair hoping that things would magically get better. I thought to myself, I am 28 and I am still dealing with these issues? I couldn't bear the idea that I might be 30 and still feeling like a loser in my sex life. So I went for it! I sent her the money, and met with her the next week.
The first part of our work together was taking stock of where I am at, and what experiences shaped me thus far. I took a deep dive into my sex life, and identified all of the trauma and self-doubt that was holding me back. She gave me the tools in her course "Presence Over Performance" and with book suggestions for me to deeply understand my flawed programming. After releasing toxic shame, and forgiving myself I was ready to reprogram my mind with the ways of a healthy masculine man. It was time for the damaged inner child to be healed and held.
The rest of our work together was spent introducing healthy habits, and building my capacity to be present and emotionally attuned. I began doing the guided meditations that Iryna provided me 2 times per day, and stopped using porn entirely. I learned how to self-pleasure in a mindful way, and began a practice of ejaculatory choice. It only took a few weeks for my system to recover, and I was already feeling successful and confident that if I kept this up I would be guaranteed to succeed. I read many books, and had an insatiable thirst for listening to videos from mentors she directed me to. This work became the focus of my life, and it was rewarding to feel the results.
Now at the end of our 3 month container I am a new man. I have been porn free for 3 months without failure. My sexual discipline has given me the ability to be disciplined with my diet, and exercise routines. I am now more physically fit, and with consistent meditation my mental health is excellent too. I have begun dating again, and I feel confident about putting myself out there. I have a whole toolkit of resources that I am using to continually expand my knowledge, and practices. All along the way Iryna has been available to hold space, and coach me via voice notes.
I can honestly say that working with Iryna has been the most impactful experience of my entire life, and this quantum leap of self improvement would not have been possible without my investment in her services. I would highly recommend any man to work with her to either fix themselves in times of despair, or just to build upon their path of self actualization. Iryna has a warm, accepting, and present energy that resonates with the soul. Thanks for teaching me so many lessons, and holding my hand on that path towards becoming a better man.
Sincerely, Anonymous"
I cried when I read his story. There is nothing I want more in the worlld than for men and women to live the lives of passion, purpose and power, integrated and whole.
If you resonated with this young man's story and felt inspired but don't know where to start, please do reach out for support today. Book a FREE 30 min consultation at the link below and we will discuss how I can best serve you and what offer of mine will fit your needs most.
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna