THE 5 QUALITIES IN A MAN THAT A WOMAN LOVES IN THE BEDROOM

Hey handsome,

Read on for the 5 qualities in a man that a woman will greatly appreciate in the bedroom - and beyond.

These tips are curated for you from Sherri Winston's brilliant book "Women's Anatomy of Arousal".

1. Attuned giving.

Let your focus and direction be refined by awareness and attunement. Initiate and direct not by dominating and going where you want, but by paying attention to her signals and taking her where she most wants to go. Give her exactly what she wants when she wants it by using your attention and presence in service to her pleasure. Ultimately, her surrender to opening is exactly where you want to go, too.

2. Your presence.

If you don't show up, then who is that guy who's having sex with her? :) I talk so much about this in my coaching! It really is so crucial. I have created a whole online course for men on this - "Presence over Performance". Join here.

3. Clean, clear intentions and integrity.

Don't degrade yourself or her by manipulating or lying to her. Know what you want and speak your truth to her. If all you want it hot sex with no commitment, that's ok - tell her. That might be what she wants, too!

4. Reliability and direction.

Women are "lunar”, shifting and variable. They need a "solar" counterpoint - solid, steadfast male energy that doesn't tack with the breeze and can be counted on to provide clear focus and direction. You are the solid center; she dances around it.

5. Your hot, studly masculine energy.

Be that dominant and demanding lover, men, but only when she is really ready - and ideally, begging for it.

Hope you take these on and apply them in your sex and dating life! Can’t wait to see what happens for you when you do.

Dedicated to supporting you in becoming the most amazing lover and man she craves for.

Much love and gratitude,

Iryna