SEX IS NOT MEANT TO ALWAYS BE BURNING HOT

Hey handsome,

Sexuality is not supposed to always be hot and wild and orgasmic. It’s not supposed to look like ripping each other’s clothes off at all hours of the day and climaxing together every time.

Sexuality is fluid, and ever changing.

Like seasons in nature. When there is “winter”, there is a desire for the energy to go inward, for conserving and resourcing, for hibernating. When it’s “summer”, the desire is for more luscious, wild and adventurous experiences. And by the way, the seasons of each person’s sexuality don’t have to correspond to the actual season nature is in.

In our society, which is so performance-oriented, always demanding “summer” energy in everything, including sexuality, it is very easy to feel pressure to perform, act and push yourself, which ultimately can result in feeling shame if your body doesn’t cooperate. This is true for both men and women.

I want to offer you a perspective of looking at your sexual life though the bigger lens of life itself, which is always evolving and shifting.

What if we allowed ourselves to honor our fall and winter, respecting what is, trusting that spring and summer will return? And simultaneously heal any limiting beliefs around sexuality, moving towards wholeness.

I invite you to join my online course for men, "Presence over Performance". If you have been experiencing shame around your “performance”, have been feeling inadequate in the sexual arena, and are willing to learn from a woman how to please your female partner - this is the journey for you.

I'm so looking forward to supporting you in becoming the most amazing lover and man she craves for.

Much love and gratitude,

Iryna