The #1 Skill You Need to Master to be Successful with Women
Hey there,
Do you want to know the secret? The secret to how to be that irresistible lover and have success with women in the bedroom and dating and overall in the relationship?
So, what is this incredible skill that will increase your confidence with women?
The skill is MASTERING YOUR ATTENTION.
If women are saying NO to dates, affection, and sex more than you’d like, you have not mastered it.
What does it look like to master your attention?
Your attention is one of your most powerful assets! Value it like your life depends on it. Mastering your attention activates the part of you that doesn’t have to try or do much to be noticed, respected, desired, and trusted.
Here are three attention shifts that you can begin practicing now:
1. From Mind to Body
Instead of thinking and ruminating in your head about whether you are doing a good job and whether she likes you, shift to feeling your body, the emotions you are experiencing, and the sensations coursing through your body. Slow down, apply stillness, pause in conversations, and use deep breaths.
When your attention is on your body, your body wakes up. Awkward moments and transitions disappear because your body creates a connection for you from the moment you are in the room.
2. From Past or Future to NOW
When you expect that answer from her, you are in the past. When you let your mind go into “What if...” scenarios, you are in the future. Having your attention on NOW is what creates aliveness and attraction. Let go of planning a response or a question in your head and instead notice her facial expressions, tone of voice, choice of words, and body postures.
3. From Inside to Out
Shift your attention from all the fears and doubts you’re feeling inside to discovering what is in front of you - that woman you are with. Become curious about her and her world with childlike awe.
I invite you to practice these three shifts in your daily interactions, especially during intimacy!
If you are curious about how to work with me 1-on-1, schedule a FREE introductory call.
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna