How You Treat this Sacred Part of Your Body Says A Lot About You
Hey there,
I want to quote Sofia Sundari, a Tantra teacher whose wisdom I deeply respect & admire.
"A man’s confidence is strongly linked to his relationship with his cock."
We can't authentically engage with the world and people around us if we are in absolute acceptance and love of our own selves.
And guess what is a very important part of us that deserves our love? - Our body, yes. Because this is the part of ourselves that we see and deal with daily, and our genitals is where our body begins. Our genitals is what determines our human essence, our sexual essence.
Most men don’t really have a love for their cock; they are rather just using it.
Your genitals need to be loved and acknowledged for what they are.
In tantra instead of the word “cock” we sometimes use the Sanskrit word “lingam”, and it literally means “wand of light”.
Gentlemen, are you able to treat it as such? Learn to listen to it, learn to honor it?
It is not about the size or how exactly it looks. It is rather about whether you dare to OCCUPY your cock, whether you dare to OWN it.
"The way you are behaving sexually is exactly how you are behaving in Life." as I like to say it - How you show up in sex is how you show up in life.
So here are a few questions that you might reflect on:
Are you capable of claiming Life and throwing her on the bed? Are you showing up in Life in your fullness or only half way?
Are you allowing yourself to be soft, in bed and in Life, and when that happens are you still respecting yourself?
Do you tend to get carried away with performance/agenda and forget to listen to yourself and to Life?...
I invite you to really contemplate these questions. And feel free to let me know what came up for you by replying to this email.
In my online course, Presence over Performance, there is a fantastic practice (many men love it) called "Testicle Massage" that will help you to really connect to your whole sexual center and occupy it fully if you do it daily.
The online course for men, "Presence over Performance," which you can do at your own pace, has five modules containing teaching materials and all my potent self-pleasure practices and meditations on helping you, gentlemen, to connect deeper to your body, heal performance anxiety, and be a masterful lover in the bedroom. Module 5 has both P@ssy and C@ck Massage practices that you and your partner can totally have fun learning from and introducing into your lovemaking sessions. So, if you are struggling with PE, ED, being present in the bedroom, and needing more confidence - this offer is golden for you.
"Presence over Performance"
Enjoy!
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna