How You Show Up in Sex is How You Show Up in Life
Hey there,
I came across this quote a few years back while reading Osho’s book "The Book of Secrets." (Osho is a famous Indian Guru who brought Tantra to the West)
“The body can become a vehicle to that which is beyond the body, and sex energy can become a spiritual force."
Maybe you’re wondering, what does it even mean for the body to be beyond the body?
Here’s the thing.
Even though we use our bodies every second of the day, it doesn’t mean we are “connected” to our bodies.
Have you noticed that sometimes you can’t control your body in the way you want it to?
In our context, it could be in the bedroom… When you have too many thoughts in your mind, and performance anxiety grows...
Maybe sometimes you even experience difficulty getting hard or lasting long enough...
Unfortunately, that’s what happens when you disconnect from your body and stay “in your head.” And many clients of mine find it to be the case. Once they remove porn and fantasy, habitual fast and hard masturbation, slow down, and tune in to their body, the feeling/sensation comes back, and the natural arousal is back online again.
Now, coming back to Osho’s teachings.
When you are fully connected to your body through conscious practice, you will start to notice again even the most subtle sensations in your body.
That calms you down and grounds you into your body.
That becomes your root.
And then, you can direct your sexual energy, your care, and your love for your partner...
...what Osho calls the “spiritual force.”
That’s how you can become more confident about your performance, create more intimacy with your partner, and reconnect with your masculine power.
I know it may sound a bit too vague and spiritual.
But love and sex are indeed spiritual.
When we try to figure out these things with techniques, we return to our “head” again.
Instead, let our body be the vehicle, and the sexual energy be the leading force.
Getting back into your body and out of your head is the key to healing performance anxiety and becoming the confident, powerful, and present lover you want to be.
You can definitely achieve that by working with me one-on-one: For you gentlemen who are on a journey of sexual awakening, sexual liberation, and ownership of your sexual power, and you desire support, if you are at the point that you know support is necessary, I would love to meet with you. Schedule a free 30 minute consultation here.
For those who have been experiencing performance anxiety, I have a free training that will help you to heal performance anxiety and become a masterful lover. Sign up for the free training here.
Enjoy!
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna