ARE YOU LIVING YOUR TRUTH? {CLIENT SUCCESS STORY}
Hey handsome,
One of my clients is going through a divorce. A decision that has been brewing for the last few months. It was a really hard decision for him to make. He’s been with this wife for 19 years; she’s been his only partner.
But they haven’t had any intimacy in the last year. They’ve tried counseling and separation for a bit, but it didn’t work. His wife blamed him for not being good in bed, and, he of course, developed performance anxiety, feelings of inadequacy, and a lack of confidence.
So he buried himself in porn, avoiding the truth of the situation and the pain he was feeling.
The first time we spoke was a year ago. At the time, he wasn’t yet ready to work with me. But his journey began. He started slowly removing porn from his life, and reading and researching all the things that could help him get his power and confidence back.
Eventually he came back around to me, by joining “Presence over Performance”, my online course for men. And then we started working together 1:1.
In one of our sessions he mentioned something that really stood out to me.
Through all the practices and meditations he learned in the course, he had started connecting more deeply to his inner self, his true feelings; reflecting on his life and his relationship. He said that when he imagined his life without porn and all the other distractions he was hiding behind, it presented itself as empty, dull and unfulfilling.
It was a wake-up call for him to begin creating change.
Change is never pleasant. But when he’d been lying in bed for hours, pondering his divorce decision, he found he was much more excited for the life ahead of him without his partner, than continuing on in the marriage.
I’m not promoting divorce - in fact, I stand for the opposite. But sometimes it’s the tough decision we need to make when being with a partner is no longer true.
And I do stand for truth, and help you find that truth.
Now this man is excited to explore his life, his passions, his purpose - and to meet new people.
If you resonate with this client’s story, feel free to reach out to me and share what's happening for you.
Can't wait to talk to you!
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna