ARE YOU HOLDING BACK IN SEX?
Hey handsome,
Some men will be sheepish and extra careful during sex, or will even avoid it all together.
They feel this immense power within themselves that wants to be unleashed, but every time they have sex, an old traumatic memory around sex resurfaces (that most likely originated in childhood and is associated with their very first sexual experience).
For men, this holding back in intimacy usually stems from the fear of hurting their partner.
Resolving this block requires lots of holding of the little one inside (your young boy self) and stepping into a mature adult self who is in charge during intimacy.
It takes practice, self awareness, forgiveness, acceptance and trust. And also communication with your lover.
I would also recommend getting really familiar with your ANGER. Being present with it, releasing it, and channeling it into becoming fuel for passion, power, and desire that yearns to be unlocked.
In my work with men tapping into anger is one of many incredible exercises I offer.
If any of this resonates, I'd love to hear from you. Schedule a discovery call with me so we can chat.
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna