YES, YOU, TOO, CAN HAVE THE TITLE OF "SEX GOD"...

I have a client who came to me initially to work on his intimacy with his long term partner. 

He was successful in business, but deeply unhappy in his marriage. 

We did an initial intro session, but he did not sign up to work with me. He wanted to talk to his partner first to get her consent as well. 

A few weeks later, I learned they are separating and she asked for divorce. 

I was shocked. And stayed in touch via email with my then-not-yet-client the whole time. 

He was devastated, in pain and confused. 

He was doing everything possible to save the marriage, to get her back. She was abusive, (not only to him, but to herself also) and did not want to work on saving the relationship. Did not want any help from marriage counselors or coaches either. 

He moved out. Mid-January we started working together. 

His desire was to become a Sex God! 

So we dove in.

And OMG! It’s been a little bit over a month and his phone is blowing up with texts from women. 

He had been terrified to have sex with new women, as he was with one woman for 20 years, since he was 18. 

The work we’ve done and the amount of awareness this man has gained is incredible. 

He goes slowly, he doesn’t rush into intimacy with a new date (and he has a new date every day). He is honest with all of them about his past and his intentions of not going into a new relationship. He is honorable, respectful and attuned to what is good for him.

He is now having sex.....you bet, like a Sex God! 

What has he been doing differently? 

He hired me to help him be more embodied. To help him move through grief, to support him when he felt the most confusion and pain. To appreciate him for who he is as a man, and to appeal to his strong powerful masculine. To guide him into his own ability to access tender places and feel through discomfort. To resource the parts of him that felt alive and pleasurable.

The results speak for themselves.

With love, Iryna