HOW TO MAINTAIN SEXUAL TENSION

One of my clients asked me the other day how to maintain sexual tension, passion and desire with a partner you have been in relationship with for a while, while also raising a kid.

I only can answer this question from an energy perspective (masculine & feminine polarities), as that is what I understand best and teach my clients. 

You, men, as the masculine polarity (your core energy), ensure that your woman does not feel the need to animate her masculine side in your relationship. 

How do you do that? 

It is important that you find, master and maintain your own strong direction, sense of purpose, presence, integrity and clarity in all aspects of your life - financial, intimate, emotional and spiritual. And that you keep your word to your woman and overall in life. It’s not easy - distractions are real. And your woman will test you big time as well. But it is the ultimate goal of a man.

The core of the feminine is her natural radiance, softness & playfulness. If she stops taking care of herself, if she becomes tired and worn out, then she is unable to give you the feminine energy you desire in intimacy. You might still love her, but you will begin to look elsewhere for feminine energy.

Your woman must be able to trust you to take charge (that’s why she tests you with her moods) - then she relaxes her own masculine edge. You do not have to do all the work, but you must be able to steer the course if you wish for your woman to be relaxed in her feminine.

If you are strong in your masculine so she can be soft in her feminine - your sexual tension will remain alive and well.
 

Much Love, Iryna