YOU DO WHAT?! - I'M A SEX COACH. HERE'S WHAT THAT MEANS.

Hey there,

I have so much fun watching people's faces when I tell them that I am a sex coach. The reactions I get are priceless!

Some people do a double take with their eyes wide open and exclaim: "Wait, you are what?! Wow, how did you get into that?"

Some start joking about, imagining me coaching a couple and giving instructions to the couple about positions, angels, etc. :)

Some want to know more, some brush it off and want to move on to the next topic.

But no matter the reaction, there is always a little bit of trepidation or a slight sense of embarrassment I feel in people when they hear me talk more about what I do. Not many are able to go deep into a conversation about intimacy and sex. And that’s not surprising to me at all. When you start talking to someone about intimacy and sexuality - you bond. It’s a very vulnerable topic.

So what is sex coaching, really?

In my practice I use both talking (almost like therapy, Gestalt therapy in my case) and embodiment practices (meditations, breathwork) to support my clients.

We talk a lot about their sexual desires, needs and challenges. We say words like penis, vagina and pussy etc. out loud - because through speaking them we normalize sharing about these parts of our body with no emotional charge (usually shame).

We work with the body (emotions, feelings), mind, and spirit in connection, which means I ask my client to feel into different parts of himself/herself and share what it is there.

I help my clients think of sex, eroticism and intimacy as a very natural, innocent and pure human experience - because it is.

Our sessions happen online through Zoom, with clothes on. I do not guide my clients through masturbation, there is no nudity or explicit touch. I create recorded self-pleasure practices which my clients do in their own time, in the privacy of their homes.

My clients get amazing results.

So - ready to work with a sex coach? Book a free connection call.

Or if you are a man struggling with performance anxiety, porn/fantasy addiction, and lack of presence in the bedroom, I invite you to sign up for my online program for men, “Presence Over Performance”.

I'm so looking forward to supporting you in becoming the most amazing lover and man she craves for.

Much love and gratitude,

Iryna