THE KIND OF MAN SHE WILL GET WET FOR

Hey handsome,

Many of my clients have “nice guy” syndrome before they start working with me. In fact I’ve noticed this applies to many of the men in general whom I attract into my life. My partner is a recovering "nice guy". :)

There is a theory I have about why this is: My dharma, my purpose in life is to emPOWER humans on their sexuality journey.

Awakening my own sexual potential has given me a tremendous amount of power, confidence in who I truly am, the freedom of leading an authentic life, and immense love for myself. Obviously, my journey still continues, because one's sexual potential is so vast, that there is no limit to what one can experience.

I want this for my clients. I want men to connect to their sex center as a power center, with no shame or guilt, but rather with reverence, sacredness and with approval of their wild animal self, their beast.

What does that have to do with "nice guy" syndrome?

Well, most nice guys abandon their power, shame it, and don’t approve of the "dangerous" side of themselves. Why? Because the dangerous guy is very much connected to his anger. And anger is deemed a bad emotion in our society. Our society favors people-pleasers and shames those who speak their truth.

I’m not saying that everyone should act out and speak their raw truth unabashedly. But I am saying that there needs to be a very conscious relationship to your anger, power and truth. There needs to be a balance between your heart (compassion/kindness) and your sex center (power/anger). And that takes some healing, some clearing of old beliefs, and forgiveness of yourself.

Why would you want all of that?

Because women want to get ravished by you and they will always choose a dangerous guy over a nice guy. Nice guy will be in the friend's zone. It’s what we feel naturally as women, it's biology. And even if a woman tells you otherwise, subconsciously she desires hot, obliterating, wild sex with a very dominant (but heart centered) man.

She will get wet for that kind of a man.

Want to learn more and need support? Come work with me. Join my online course - "Presence over Performance”.

Much love and gratitude,

Iryna