Women Don't Care About Your Performance

Hey there,

Our society is so keen on performance. Performance in all areas of life. And sex isn't an exception.

Our minds are so wired to have picture-perfect sex with perfect bodies, perfect hard-ons on command, and, of course, perfect simultaneous orgasms. And any deviation from that makes us feel awkward, disappointed, frustrated, and shut down. 

It is a huge taboo to talk about sex, about our desires and needs in the bedroom. But, in my humble opinion,  if you want to have good sex, you have to talk about it (first).

Have you ever thought about how you would like to show up sexually? What identity/persona would you like to put forward in the bedroom?

What desires would YOU have (not what your partner would want)? And I’m not talking threesomes, anal and kinky sex, though these are valid desires too.

I mean, what level of depth can you take your sexuality to? How would you like to feel when you make love? Perhaps, if you contemplated on the matter, your next sexual experience would have been richer, deeper, and so much more adventurous.

And yes, women do not care about your performance!!! Women want your presence, your attention directed onto creating that depth, by being in the body (not ruminating in the head), feeling yourself, having an open heart, and leading with stellar skills and confidence. 

Women who do care about your hard cock at all times are also deeply performance oriented and disconnected from their bodies and pussies. 

We all - men and women - are the victims of the "performance" based society we live in. It is a slow, gradual deconditioning and education we all have to go through so that we truly enter the depth of our sexual expression that fulfills and nourishes us. 

I am here for you, gentlemen, to assist you on your journey. Because, in all honesty, women are naturally tantric, and men need to be initiated into this realm by women. The most successful lovers are men who humbly learned from wise women in their lives. How to be with a woman, how to touch her, and engage with her so that it feels like a sensual dance. 

So forget about your performance (which is so ego-based), and come learn from me.

The first step is to get this magical mini-course I created for you. 

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And if you want to go deeper and cultivate your presence and ability to master your sexual energy so that she receives your cock hard as a steal after that juicy Pussy Massage, sign up for my online course for men (This includes the Pussy Massage Course)

 Presence over Performance 

 

Much love and gratitude,

Iryna