TRY THIS FUN PRACTICE WITH YOUR PARTNER TONIGHT

Hey there,

Want to learn a really cool fun sensual practice that you and your partner can do tonight?

It’s called a "Spoiling Session" - and here is how it works:

You and your partner take turns to share your ideal spoiling session.

If you were totally selfish, free to say exactly what you want - what would bring you the most pleasure? What would you desire and ask for? Get detailed. Timing, place, ambiance, attributes that need to be present, music, food etc. If you’d like, take some time to journal first to get really clear on what your best spoiling session would look like.

For example, I would share with my partner:

"I want you to pour a bath for me with lavender oil & salt and wash my feet and my body. Then I want you to carry me into the bedroom with Sade music playing, candles lit & rose petals on the bed. I want you to feed me dark chocolate & then play guitar & sing for me. And then I want you to massage my body with coconut oil, all over, for 1 hour, with gentle kisses & teasing, rubbing your body against mine, whispering into my ears all the things you appreciate about me. I then want you to gently roll me over & massage my pussy & tease me until I beg for you to enter me..."

Haha. I might ask for this tonight! Just got super turned on writing this…

The important point is - don't hold back on your desires. Let your partner know what you most wish to happen for you. The details matter.

You might find this is actually pretty hard to do! Some of us get very shy about our desires & have blocks around receiving pleasure. It is very common! And especially for men, as I have noticed through my coaching work with men.

So I invite you to draft that pleasure-filled "spoiling session" today & initiate this game with your partner. Share your ideal scenarios with each other.

And then why not go ahead and schedule both sessions and make them real for each other?

Want more? Want to know how to please your lover? Book a free call with me here. I can't wait to chat!

Much love and gratitude,

Iryna