Three Things You Can Do to Invite Your Woman into her Feminine Essence

Hey there, 

Gosh, what a gift it is for a man to be in the presence of a truly feminine woman.
 

Our world, unfortunately, is a harsh place for true feminine, soft, open-hearted women who also know how to honor their NO’s and don’t collapse into an emotional mess.

So, if you happen to stumble upon such a unique creature (I’m being slightly facetious here), never let her go.
 

True femininity is never about external beauty. It’s all about the energy she emanates from within. It’s her radiance, warmth, nurturance, receptivity, and graciousness that distinguish her from others. You, as a man, will feel her presence right away when you encounter her.

She is captivating, and being with such a woman will truly inspire you to become a GREAT man.

And here’s the truth: every woman has this true feminine essence within her.
 

You may not feel it right away because she’s protecting herself—strongly armored. Her relationship with her father, previous partners, and the world at large may have created unsafe conditions for her true feminine to open. So, she hides behind shields, expressed through defensiveness, righteousness, judgment, or complete shutdown. This is not to say she’s a victim and you must swoop in to save her like a gentle damsel.

Not at all. However, as a man, you can create the safe conditions for her true feminine to reveal itself to you. Your solid masculine frame, loving heart, and powerful presence—all of these are needed for your woman to blossom.

Now, I’m going to share three practical tips on how you can inspire your woman into her feminine today:

1. Hold space for her to share how she feels.
   To do this, you must master communication—not with your head, but with your body. This means being in tune with your own feelings and keeping your state solid, grounded, and calm. Your presence in the moment is key. She yearns to feel seen by you. Sit her down, take her hand, look into her eyes, breathe deeply into your lower belly, and ask, “I’m curious, how are you feeling right now? What’s on your heart?”
   Then, give her space to share. If she pauses, wait and gently ask, “Is there more? Tell me more.” If she starts overthinking, gently redirect: “I want to know what you feel right now.” Keep asking until you feel she’s truly opened up. You’ll know when it happens—trust me. If she seems shut down or defensive, patiently say, “What’s underneath this? I’m here for you. It’s safe to open up—I’m not going anywhere.” Sometimes, it may take several attempts to reach her vulnerable heart. Be patient and don’t give up.

2. Invite her into her feminine through practical acts of care.
   Take over her chores—arrange for a babysitter, a cleaner, or a meal delivery. Schedule a massage for her. Don’t ask her; just do it. If she resists, take a deep breath, smile, and say, “I love you, baby. You deserve this time for yourself. Enjoy—I’ve got you.” She may huff and puff at first, but don’t pay attention. She will gush with gratitude later (unless you’re dealing with a Cruella-type wife—in which case, why would you be with someone like that? Have some self-respect).

3. Offer her something that opens her body and allows her to receive.
   This could be a sensual massage, a bath ritual, or slow dancing (if you’re a dancer). It could even be a pussy massage (check out my video on this). The key is to bring her into her senses—feed her, touch her, whisper what you love about her. Make sure she knows she doesn’t have to reciprocate. When you’re done, tuck her into bed and wish her sweet dreams—with no expectations of anything in return. The next morning, she’ll naturally want to pour back into you with her feminine energy, nurturing, appreciation, hugs, kisses—or even a blowjob.

If you have questions or if you’ve tried these and they didn’t work, reach out to me—I’d be more than happy to support you.

Gentlemen, I’m on your side. I want you to be great and to have a fulfilling relationship with a truly feminine woman. You can absolutely draw this out of any woman—you just have to know how. And I’m here to help. Schedule a free 30-min consultation here: https://calendly.com/iryna-sulim/30min

Warmly

Iryna