Three Things That Helped my Client to Overcome Performance Anxiety

Hey there, 


One of my clients, whom I have been supporting for about two years now, shared these three main "magic tools" that he used to transform from being lousy and insecure in bed, struggling with premature ejaculation, to the best lover his women have had. 

So here they are: 

1. Self-pleasure practice has been paramount in retraining his body to focus on slowing down, breathing, sounding, feeling the arousal, and circulating it through the body. Through daily practice, he became very attuned to his body and appreciative of what it is capable of. Aside from working with me 1:1, he participated in my signature online course for men, "Presence over Performance." This course is filled with the main foundational tools (i.e., self-pleasure guided meditations) that can assist any man in transforming performance anxiety into an embodied inner confidence rooted in presence and self-love, which is absolutely necessary for a man to have incredible stamina during lovemaking. The course is available for anyone to sign up. It is self-guided. Sign up here and get all the good stuff. 


2. Pussy Massage! He calls it "a secret weapon". And you know by now that I have this amazing little offer for you too. If you want this secret weapon, too, sign up here.  (He mastered this practice. Became a real pro in giving his female lovers the most exquisite pussy pleasure ever. It took pressure off him to "perform" right at the start. 30-40 min into this magical foreplay, he and his partner have gotten sublimely relaxed, connected to one another, and, of course, basking in pleasure. Sometimes his lover would have one or several orgasms prior to him penetrating her, and by that time, her body was so supple and so receptive that penetration seemed effortless. 

By the way, the Pussy Massage practice is also contained in the last Module of the "Presence over Performance" course. So you can just purchase Presence over Performance and get it all! 


3. Leading in the bedroom (and in relationship). This one is huge. He took it upon himself to create and initiate dates and sexual experiences how he wanted them to be, obviously taking into consideration and being very attuned to his lover's desires. He created a structure, a masculine frame, so to speak, for a woman to relax and bloom like a rose in a beautiful garden. This one took some practice as well. It required him to let go of a "nice guy" persona and reconnect with a benevolent dominant man within. If you find yourself on a people-pleasing spectrum, I highly recommend reading the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. You can purchase it here.


So here you are. If you diligently learn and become masterful in all three, it will not be too long before your woman will start calling you a Sex God!

Warmly,

Iryna