THE SECRET TO WIELDING YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY AS A SPIRITUAL FORCE
Hey handsome,
A few years back, I came across this quote while reading Osho’s "The Book of Secrets":
“The body can become a vehicle to that which is beyond the body, and sex energy can become a spiritual force."
Maybe that leaves you wondering - what does it even mean for the body to be beyond the body?
Here’s the thing. Even though we use our bodies every second of the day, it doesn’t mean we are “connected” to our bodies. Have you noticed that sometimes you can’t control your body in the way you want it to?
In our context, it could be in the bedroom… When you have too many thoughts in your mind, and performance anxiety grows... Maybe sometimes you even experience difficulty getting hard or lasting long enough...
Unfortunately, that’s what happens when you disconnect from your body and stay “in your head”. And many clients of mine find this to be the case.
Once they remove porn and fantasy, as well as habitual, fast and hard masturbation, and instead slow down and tune in to their body, the feeling/sensation comes back, and their arousal is back online again.
Now, going back to Osho’s teachings.
When you are fully connected to your body through conscious practice, you will start to notice even the most subtle sensation in your body again. This calms you down and grounds you into your body. That then becomes your root.
And then you can direct your sexual energy, your care and your love for your partner... what Osho calls the “spiritual force”.
That’s how you can become more confident about your performance, create more intimacy with your partner, and reconnect with your masculine power.
I know, it sounds a bit too vague and spiritual. But love and sex are indeed spiritual. When we try to figure out these things with techniques, we go back to our “head” again.
Instead, let our body be the vehicle and the sexual energy be the leading force.
Getting back into your body and out of your head is the key to healing performance anxiety and becoming the confident, powerful and present lover you want to be.
Ready to get started right now?
It’s my pleasure to support you with this FREE recording of a "Body Meditation/Genital Breathing practice" that you can start using daily to prime yourself to feel that organic felt sense that you need to get hard and stay hard. Practice daily for 21 days, and see what happens.
And if you want more guidance and deeper support from me, join me in “Presence Over Performance”! My 10 week course for men.
I'm so looking forward to supporting you in becoming the most amazing lover and man she craves for.
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna