THE #1 SKILL YOU NEED TO MASTER TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN
Hey handsome,
Do you want to know the secret?
The secret to being that irresistible lover and having success with women in the bedroom, in dating, and overall in relationship? The must-have skill that will increase your confidence with women?
Here it is: MASTERING YOUR ATTENTION.
If women are saying NO to dates, affection, and sex more often than you’d like, you have not yet mastered your attention.
What does it look like to master your attention?
Your attention is one of your most powerful assets! Value it like your life depends on it. Mastering your attention activates the part in you that doesn’t have to try or DO much of anything to be noticed, respected, desired, and trusted.
Here are three attention shifts that you can begin practicing now:
1. From Mind to Body
Instead of thinking and ruminating in your head whether you are doing a good job and whether she likes you, shift to feeling your body, the emotions you are experiencing and the sensations coursing through your body. Slow down, apply stillness, pause in conversations, use deep breaths.
When your attention is on your body, your body wakes up. Awkward moments and transitions disappear because your body creates a connection for you from the moment you are in the room.
2. From Past or Future to NOW
When you expect a certain answer from her based on what’s happened before, you are in the past. When you let your mind go into “What if...” scenarios, you are in the future. Having your attention on the NOW is what creates aliveness and attraction. Let go of planning a response or a question in your head and instead notice her facial expressions, tone of her voice, choice of words, body postures.
3. From Inside to Outside
Shift your attention from all the fears and doubts you’re feeling inside onto discovering what is in front of you - the woman you are with. Become curious about her and her world with childlike awe.
I invite you to start practicing these three shifts now in your daily interactions and especially during intimacy!
And if you are curious how to work with me 1-on-1 to take this deeper, schedule a FREE introductory call.
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna