Still Lovemaking? What's that?

Hey there,

In this email, I’m going to share a bit about a not-very-popular technique in the bedroom called “still lovemaking.”
 

What is it exactly?
 

It’s you, as a man, penetrating your woman in a missionary position or from the side, and staying very still inside of her. No thrusting, no movement of any kind.

Just being inside of her, relaxed, and hard—enjoying the experience of feeling warmth, pleasure, and deep connection with your beloved, breathing into it all.

You can invite your beloved into this experience by coaching her to breathe, soften, and open to you even more.
 

Say something like this, looking her in the eyes:
“Breathe, baby. Relax your whole body, open even more for me, feel the hardness of my cock inside of you.”
 

This practice is very intimate because it will require you to slow down, get out of your head, and be very present in the moment.
 

And I know you’re going to tell me, “But Iryna, I will lose my erection if I don’t thrust.”
I hear you. You may very likely lose it. And it’s because your body isn’t yet trained to feel the subtleties of pleasure and arousal if you are used to hard penetration and fast thrusting.
 

Practice training your body to feel the subtleties when you self-pleasure.
 

Still lovemaking can be your secret trick to opening her more without saying anything at all. Because it does feel AMAZING to a woman when you are just there, present, and so connected.
 

I remember I used to ask my partners to be still inside of me (I am very sensitive, and hard thrusting doesn’t do it for me, especially from the start). It felt like I could open so much wider and deeper taking him in when he was just still, occasionally flexing his pelvic muscles. I could feel how he would do it; I could feel his heartbeat in his cock and chest, his deep breath, and his eye gaze on me. It was very intimate.
 

Next time you make love to your woman, try this out. Stay still inside of her for at least 5 minutes, then flex for another 2 minutes, and then slowly begin to raise your pace—even if she wants you to move. Command her with your gaze and your presence that this is what you desire in this moment.
 

I truly believe that the work we do in the bedroom has the power to transform every other area of your life. When you step into your full sexual potential, your confidence, presence, and connection to yourself and your partner deepen in ways that will leave a lasting impact.
 

But transformation doesn’t happen overnight—and it often requires the right support and guidance to help you fully integrate the tools and practices that will create the change you desire. I’d love to work with you. Schedule a free 30-min consulation here: https://calendly.com/iryna-sulim/30min

Warmly,

Iryna