LET'S GET INTIMATE... LEARN MORE ABOUT ME!
Hey handsome,
Since you may be curious…
I was born and raised in the small but mighty country of Belarus. I was an average student in school and university. I actually never liked school that much. I enjoyed university life more because of how liberal it was.
I studied art history, cultural heritage, and international tourism and dreamed of one day traveling the world and being an art auctioneer selling the most exquisite pieces of art to people. I have always been drawn to beauty, elegance, and unique refinement in everything: food, clothes, art, music, architecture, people, etc.
Belarus started to feel limiting to me once I explored the foreign land of America (the Hamptons to be exact) when I was 19, and I decided to move to the US full-time when I was 24.
NYC was the right city for me to land. I loved the energy of it. I was so driven and motivated to make my way to the top. At the time I had no idea what that top would look like.
After testing myself in multiple odd jobs, I finally found myself in real estate. My dream of becoming an art auctioneer and work at Sotheby’s shifted into working as a real estate agent, still enjoying the beauty of NYC homes but also learning the hustle of the business world. I enjoyed some parts of it, others not so much.
When I turned 31, things started shifting. I was in several relationships that forced me into looking at how I’ve been showing up as a partner.
My insecurities of not measuring up started to come up both in my professional and personal life. I would often doze off at board meetings, engulfed in boredom, thinking wtf am I doing here? It’s such a waste of my life.
The last straw for a complete shift was my ex-partner’s infidelity that pushed me to turn things around 180 degrees.
I quit NYU where I studied, and I went to India to join a yoga retreat led by a Russian-speaking yoga teacher. Now in retrospect, it doesn’t sound like a big deal of a move. But at the time it was a tremendous shift for me.
When I came back I attended a Tantric workshop in California that impacted my whole life going forward.
Within a few months, I quit my real estate management job and started leading tantric workshops in NYC and in-person tantric/breathwork sessions.
All of this happened so quickly, in perhaps two years' time.
I was taking courageous actions towards things that drew me (i.e. spirituality, yoga, conscious sexuality, Tantra, etc.) but still had that same mindset of pushing, achieving, and striving to get to the top.
Later, I learned that it doesn’t really work like that when you are on the path of spiritual growth.
I enjoyed being an entrepreneur, though I had no idea what I was doing. I was relying on my intuition and all the teachers, coaches, and training I had been hungrily absorbing.
Several coaching trainings later with multiple teachers and 100's of in-person sessions with clients, I am where I am today.
My desire to work with men came from ease.
It’s easy for me to connect with men, it’s easy to listen to their deepest stories… it’s also very rewarding because men are eager to learn all about the feminine secrets that I am so excited to share.
My desire to support men and the need in the world (especially post “me too”) for more spaces for men to share intimately was quite acute.
And so here I am, living in California and coaching men on sexuality, love, and relationships.
Yes, I help men to be better lovers and make love to women with as much presence, assertiveness, desire, and exquisite skill set as they use to make love to the world. And the other way around.
I help men connect to their masculinity and truth through the portal of conscious sexuality.
That’s what I’ve done for myself and that’s how I know how to lead others.
So now that you know a little bit more about me… I’d love to get to know you and how I can support you. Schedule you free 30min discovery call now.
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna