I HAD A FULL BODY ORGASM IN THE HANDS OF A MAN DURING ECSTATIC DANCE

Yes, I had a full body energy orgasm in the hands of a man while I was at ecstatic dance.

I go to ecstatic dance in NYC often & I absolutely love how the magical rhythm of the beat makes my body feel & move. There are no rules in ecstatic dance. I let my mind rest & my body takes over the process. It's so liberating. It's play.   

This particular time… I lock eyes with a man & we begin moving together in chaotic movement, interchanging with more flowy movement. And then it goes all kinds of ways. But we keep eye contact the whole time. I feel like I'm leading him with my gaze, speaking through my eyes what I desire. And he gets it. 

He comes closer and locks his hands tight around my chest, holding me safely, so I can fully lean into his hands, while still moving & keeping eye contact. My body feels deep relaxation, and surrenders in the hands of this man. I don't know him. We have never spoken. And I don't need to. I just feel that he is capable of holding me safely, staying fully present, grounded & strong in his core. And so there it goes....

My body is overtaken by the orgasmic waves of ecstasy; electricity is shooting through my feet, legs, pelvis, belly & chest, spine and head, leaving me trembling, convulsing, screaming & singing simultaneously. It is pleasurable, freeing & beyond powerful. I can hardly contain myself. I feel like my body will be torn into pieces. But he still holds me. He is my protector & the man my body chose to trust..... 

It lasted for about 15 minutes. He never let go & he never tried to interfere. He just witnessed me in my bliss. I thanked him with a hug, feeling deep gratitude for the experience & his strong masculine presence....

I truly wish all women could experience this natural state of orgasmicness. And all men were able to evoke this trust, presence & safety for women to let go & surrender. 

The work I do with men is always indirectly touching women. I help men to heal themselves… so they can heal women through their presence, their impeccable clarity & open heart… for women to become the true LOVE that we are meant to be in this world. 

Much Love & Gratitude, Iryna