HOW TO TAKE A WOMAN DEEPER INTO HER PLEASURE.
“When she initiates intimacy by coming on to me, kissing and touching me, I cringe, move away, my whole body gets constricted, and instead of being turned on, I get repelled by her.”
My client is in a relationship with an ‘awakened and hypersexual’ woman (his words). He’s overwhelmed by her overly sexual nature. He feels pressure to satisfy a never-satiated woman. And with that loses his confidence.
It’s almost like he feels unmanly if he can’t take her to that depth of pleasure.
Yes, women who are free of shame and relate to their sexuality as something freeing, joyous, and deeply nourishing are powerful. And may seem to men as insatiable, overwhelming, and triggering.
It appears that way to a man because his own sexuality is blocked by some kind of limiting belief that’s been living in his system for some time. That’s why it’s so repelling and triggering. And why there is a desire to dim it, cover it up, tell her to be coy and not so ‘out there’.
That’s why men objectify women - because objectification makes it seem not so overwhelming and easier to handle.
How do you unblock this limiting belief?
Recognize the fact that your woman is who she is and when she initiates intimacy, she desires to connect and pour her love over and into you - not take your power away.
She wants you to take her deeper into her pleasure!
Then, become aware of these reactions you have towards her overpowering sexual force. Explore the emotions and sensations that are associated with it. Get curious. Why am I feeling this way? Where did it come from?
That way this sneaky belief will slowly start to untangle and melt away. It’s a slow process and may take a few inquiries through meditation or breathwork processes to break free.
The more you unravel this limiting belief, the more you expand your own potential to hold that power and that energy that is within you.
With this new energy and power, you’ll be able to take your woman deeper into her pleasure! And that’s what she wants from you! That’s how you can have her be satiated and multiorgasmic and taken to the divine realms!
She’ll in return offer you so much unconditional love that it’ll be healing and fulfilling beyond your conscious understanding.
And if you need help with identifying these sneaky limiting beliefs, I’d love to support you!
I hope you're safe and feeling a sense of peace.
Much Love, Iryna