HOW TO BRING THE SPARK BACK IN YOUR LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP
Hey there,
One of the most common challenges long-term couples face is a lack of variety and newness in their sex life.
This aliveness, passion, and spark that most felt in the beginning of their relationship - after even just a year of living together it might start to fade.
Both partners get bored with the same positions, same techniques, same routine...
And so both begin craving and longing for that excitement and that energy that was there in the beginning.
Many will start exploring kink, BDSM, sexy lingerie, going to strip clubs, introducing "a third party" into the bedroom, sex parties, etc.
And these will work for sometime, bringing that variety and that passion back.
However, these aids are still superficial in nature. In order for couples to experience that ongoing variety and newness that they crave, they must reach for emotional depth and authentic expression.
And the only path to depth is through revealing your heart, your soul. Coming to your partner 100% vulnerable, expressing your truth, your desires and fears.
Showing up fully naked in front of him/her with your soul and heart.
The most fulfilling and satisfying sex of your life, full of variety, newness, and aliveness, can only happen if you are completely free of any inhibitions, free of any constricted emotions (guilt, shame, fear, etc.) about yourself, your body, your desires, your partner and sex in general.
Sex becomes a path to alchemizing those stagnant feelings and a healing spiritual journey for both to more wholeness and aliveness.
And that can only happen if both partners are open and courageous enough to allow themselves to tap into this space.
The majority of the couples in our society are not willing to go to that extent of depth and vulnerability.
And hence, we are where we are - with sky high rates of divorce, cheating, porn addiction, arguments etc.
A different path is possible for you. Book a free connection call with me now to take the first step.
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna