DOES SHE LACK DESIRE FOR YOU?
Hey handsome,
When she doesn’t desire you... your penis may not be rock hard and you may not last as long as you want during sex...
And what you need to realize is…
HER DESIRE FOR YOU BEGINS WITH HOW YOU SHOW UP IN RELATIONSHIP.
Natural bodily desire for you (not desire we fabricate because we think we must in order to please you) sparks up in a woman when:
you are LEADING the relationship
you are PRESENT with her when you are with her (i.e. give your full attention to her, instead of being distracted by work, phone, fantasies, your own fears and doubts, etc.)
you don’t get hooked on her emotional baits (you diffuse with humor, or walk away giving her space to process by herself)
you have clear BOUNDARIES
you adhere to YOUR TRUTH all the time and communicate it to her with LOVE
you have an exciting life of your own
If you checked all the boxes and she still doesn’t have that desire for you.... she isn’t capable of receiving you! And that’s not for you to fix. Move on, or if you are so inclined, help her to get there.
Which leads us to an important truth to recognize:
Each party in a relationship must do their piece of healing, attending to their own old wounds and patterns, and communicate that to the other.
Since I help you, gentlemen, I’m inviting and encouraging you to DO YOU first and clean up your side of the street.
My online program for men “Presence over Performance” addresses not only all your sexual challenges and helps you gain back your confidence in the bedroom, but also goes so much deeper into the root of how you show up in a relationship and how this impacts your sex life. All of it is tightly connected, and we unravel it all.
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Much love and gratitude,
Iryna