CLIENT SUCCESS STORY: NOW SHE TRUSTS HIM

Hey handsome,

Sharing another client’s success story with you today. Here’s what he told me after we’d begun working together…

“I’m re-reading “The way of a Superior Man” book and it lands now. Now I get it. All it comes down to - me taking full RESPONSIBILITY for my life, and relationship. She shared that she stopped trusting me because I have been known for not following through on stuff.”

This man wasn’t happy with his sexual life before he sought out my coaching. He wanted more sex, more passion, and to feel more desire for his wife. He was escaping to pornography, which obviously pulled them further apart rather than closer together.

He struggled, even had second thoughts whether his partner really was the one for him sexually. But he loved her very much and all other areas of theirs lives were great.

So he took a leap of faith and came to me, wanting to exhaust all possibilities and willing to do his own inner work. Then if it turned out they weren’t meant to be together, at least he’d know he’d done everything he could to make it work. That was brave.

We got to work. I helped him to step into his leadership and initiate uncomfortable conversations with his partner.

Because they needed to be had. Conversations about their sexual desires, needs, turn-ons, fantasies, attractions, etc. It wasn’t easy. But it made them feel closer and more affectionate with each other.

He heard her - and now he knows what she needs to trust and feel safe in the relationship, and therefore be more open sexually to him.

Talking about all things sex can feel so uncomfortable. But - we all want to have good, passionate sex. So how about we start talking about it so we can have what we want?!

Want to take your first step? Join “Presence over Performance”, my online course for men, where I teach you the communication frames, and how to bring them to your female partners to help you investigate all of your desires and needs in intimacy.

Much love and gratitude,

Iryna