CONSIDERING PLAY PARTIES OR OPENING UP YOUR MARRIAGE? READ THIS FIRST.

Hey there,

You might think that as a sex coach I have sex daily, or multiple times a day, or regularly attend sex parties, or maybe have weekly threesomes…?! Lol. 😂 Actually, the reality is far from that.

Now, I did have my fair share of going to play parties, being a unicorn in a couple, experimenting with kink, an open relationship, etc., during my years in NYC. And it was fun. I was curious and thought this path would lead me to that what I desired: freedom and sexual innocence, inner radiance and a deeper connection to self.

Did I find that in those adventures?! Nope.

External stimuli never really offer long-lasting satisfaction and fulfillment.

Only when I allowed myself to dive deeper into my own practice of pussy and heart exploration and healing, feeling into every subtlety of emotion and sensation, moving very slowly and listening to what wants to come through - only then the magic started happening 🤍.

When clients come to me sharing that they are ready to open up their marriage (because they are no longer attracted sexually to each other after many years of being together), that they intend to go to play parties and explore all these external sexy things, I encourage and empower them to have an authentic conversation about their true needs, desires and fears.

Is this desire to go searching outside of themselves really true for them?

Humans, especially in the realm of sexuality, must move through their inner fears to move deeper into intimacy, connection and satisfaction. There is no other way.

If you would like my support and hand-holding, I’m offering free discovery calls. Book to chat with me.

Much love and gratitude,

Iryna