FEELING SHAME AROUND YOUR SEXUALITY IS REAL FOR EVERYONE… BUT DOES IT HAVE TO BE?

Remember I held a workshop “All About Orgasms”? It was such an amazing event. I felt immense joy teaching it. And also a feeling of unexpected confusion, because the female participants chose not to turn on their cameras on zoom - and some didn’t even share. It’s everyone’s personal choice, of course.

However, this showed me that there is still such a tremendous amount of work to be done regarding healing shame around talking about sex and orgasms, especially in the presence of men.

At times I forget how far I’ve come in my journey. And that my courage and curiosity have taken me to a place of so many possibilities in the realm of sexuality and intimacy.

And I’d like to share with women that journey I’ve been on. It actually becomes a whole lot less scary if you are doing it in a group with other women, where you are given permission to be yourself, and are witnessed in your glory, vulnerability, wilderness, and your messy humanity.

I’m not perfect, and never claimed to be or to have all the answers.

I just know what can be possible - and go after that. And I have a huge amount of love and compassion for myself on the path. And that’s what I’ll offer to you, too: my support, my hand-holding, and my love.

Your life will never be the same!

Much Love & Gratitude, Iryna