TO MEN: KNOW YOUR BOUNDARIES
To men:
Know your boundaries.
Boundaries are the “energetic limits” that you know in your gut you can’t have anyone or even yourself cross because it will hurt your well being.
How do you know those limits? You learn yourself inside out. Certainly, you make mistakes and get burned. That will also be an indicator for establishing boundaries.
Have your values figured out and rooted in your core, and know your boundaries. Boundaries with yourself, your family, your friends, and your woman.
As a woman, if I don’t feel your boundaries, I will walk all over you, disrespect you, and lose sexual attraction towards you.
I need your backbone, stamina, and your integrity, your deep knowing of self, your ability to say your firm “NO” - even to me.
Your boundaries are so ingrained in you that you will take the risk of losing the relationship if people do not honour them.
I want your leadership, your benevolently dominant masculine, your love, your power, your vulnerability, and your presence.
And as a woman, I will support you relentlessly in this. I’ll graciously remind you of your higher self-potential through my feminine ways at any moment of our interaction.
And I'll only speak to you referring to that part of your masculine. I'll hold you to the highest standards. Because there is no other way to help you rise.
But I'll never support your childish behaviour, lack of integrity, abuse towards your body, mind and spirit, your victimization of yourself or blaming others.
If you continue the mediocre path, slacking on your word, your commitments, showing up half-assed for yourself and others - then do not ask me why I’m angry or sad or worried, or go into my head assuming the masculine role, or why I am putting you into the friend zone.
I feel you! And my bodily felt-sense is the truth I rely on.
So know your boundaries, your needs, desires, values, and your inner self. Because I want to feel safe with you, soft and feminine, basking in ecstasy and love, so I can give back to you my love and my graciousness that fill you up to create a better world for us.
And as a coach for men, I’m here to support you on your journey, if you don’t know where to start!
Curious how you can work with me one-on-one? Please feel free to schedule a 30 min discovery call (it is FREE).
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna