MEN WHO DO THE "INNER WORK" ARE SEXY
Gentlemen, it’s not weak to openly share about your sexuality - it’s BRAVE AF!
I mean it is really SEXY!
So I just wanted to express my deep gratitude to all the men out there who are BRAVE enough to do the “inner work”. You know who you are! I never take this lightly and truly appreciate and bow to every brave soul who took a leap.
I get it, it is really scary & uncomfortable to go deep and really face your shit.
Societal conditioning is strong - men have to solve their problems on their own, solo, and it is weak & not “manly” to go see a therapist, or any professional, for emotional/mental help.
Perhaps in the realm of love or relationship, you can get away with sharing with a friend.
But what if you have porn addiction, or you experience performance anxiety, or you are feeling completely disconnected from your body, because you have had sexual trauma and you are having so much shame around it and won’t share with anyone because you are fearful that people just won’t get it - because, again, these things just do not happen to men. Or you are in an intimate situation with a woman and you do not feel like having sex, but if you say NO to her, it will be taken as, again, “not manly”.
Because men do not do that.
But repressing trauma or hiding or not admitting and living in fear is no longer possible. It’s just not working any more! Systems are collapsing, old societal constructs are no longer valid (i.e. marriage), women are rising and awakening…
So it’s time for MEN to connect to themselves too, to their truth, to their emotions, bodies and sexuality! Sincerity with your own (at times, ugly) self is deeply needed!
... I am grateful for the courageous men out there - YOU - who did admit to themselves what they were struggling with and came to me for help!
With that said, I would like to share with you a video from my teacher Layla Martin that I was deeply inspired by. The video features three conscious men (one of them is Andrew -Layla's boyfriend) sharing about sex. Enjoy and be inspired!
**Shhh... My secret desire: To have all men be fucking from the heart with deep awareness and presence, offering their healing gifts to the women! :)
https://youtu.be/czRncqw3JRQ
Much Love, Iryna