GENTLEMEN, WE ARE NOT YOUR MASTURBATION DEVICE

Boys, when coming of sexual age, usually only know one way of learning about sex - through pornography. And touching himself only happens with pornography. There is no other way. It’s like a sex education kit, a package of 2 that comes together: masturbation + porn. 

The wiring in the brain happens at that very early age. So it becomes a habit for life that is really hard to get rid of. 

Masturbation to porn creates desensitizing, delayed orgasms and inability to be fully present with a partner during sex. 

Then, because men now only know this one way of being sexual, because of this habitual pattern of experiencing pleasure, there is a huge energetic disconnect between a man and woman in bed. 

An awakened woman who knows herself wants you to tune in to her, to be with her, to feel the subtle energy that she is in, so you can hold her in her full surrender to YOU and to the bliss; and witness her riding the orgasmic wave. 

Don’t YOU want that? Seeing your woman turned on and in full surrender is one of the biggest turn ons for a man. 

So how do you get there? 

Gentlemen, I invite you to connect to your bodies first, to stop compulsive masturbation, to drop the habit of watching porn that takes you out of the present and into your head, to FEEL your body when you self-pleasure, to get more disciplined with your mind and body, save your energy, exercise, eat well, develop healthy sleeping habits, meditate, and stop drinking alcohol that numbs you - and you will notice the difference. 
 

I know it’s easier said than done. That is why I am here to help and work with you. Hold you in safety and compassion. Help you work through your fears, insecurities, shame and toxic conditioning, that has been running your life to the ground, taking you away from living powerfully, with joy, confidence and fulfillment that comes from within. 

Much Love, Iryna