FOUR TIPS ON LASTING LONGER FROM THE MAN I LOVE

Hey handsome,

Today I had mind blowing sex with my partner. Again. So I asked him what helps him last so long.

(Yes, I’m bragging about my awesome sex life. I can, I’m a sex coach! And if you want to brag about yours, feel free to do so! I’ll celebrate you fully!)

Here is what he said, based on his experience:

1. Making love with someone you deeply love and feel connected to helps tremendously. And also - when your partner accepts you fully, all your quirks and wickedness, especially sexually.

2. Your woman’s ability to receive fully. When she is totally in the body, trusting and surrendered.

3. After 20 min of sort of “plugging into her” and finding her groove through slow gentle sex, the woman gets so activated and orgasmic, that she enters into this state of graciousness (her heart opens) and yells out from this state of bliss words of appreciation (i.e. how much she loves this experience, how much pleasure she feels and that I’m the best partner she’s ever had). This, coupled with her body receptivity, is a huge boost for me to keep going. Her desire evokes my strong desire for her.

4. Also, my own ability to be fully present in my body, in my breath and in my heart.”

So good, right?

I got lucky, he is naturally “tantric”!

.... And I can’t keep my excitement to myself and wanted to let y’all know that my man is a guest speaker on one of the recorded support calls in Presence over Performance, my online course for men.

Much love and gratitude,

Iryna